Thoughts.

These are all my thoughts. I tend to analyze all aspects possible before posting it. As you can see, all the posts are written analytically solely based on my perspective. Anyhow, enjoy reading my blog and I thank you for reading. (Please ignore any grammatical errors and errors in sentence structure)

Wednesday, December 24

Everyone's Potluck at Cheng Khang's House & Celebration of 3 Birthdays

This gathering is also known as "The Mega Gathering End of Fall 2008 Semester Birthday+Housewarming+Potluck+Gathering+Farewell Event", host by Cheng Khang. Basically each of us (or groups) will have to cook and contribute to the party. Our batch, nearly 40 plus of us were invited, but not all attended though. There were a lot of nice food, which made me crave for 4 bowls of rice!

It was also post celebration of Ryan Foo and pre-celebration of Brandon Khoo and Chun Han. It was a surprise party for them. I remember Ryan's reaction when we present the cake to him, he was like "no, not my birthday" (because his birthday was already over). The video shown below is about 3 of them blowing the candles together, it was fun!


Sigh... I wanted to do to something like this too. Too bad the house condition does not allow; it is too small and not spacious, and most importantly, it will collapse (according to the landlord). What a joke...




My group is preparing. My job is to take photograph.


There were a lot of laptops, after most of them went home, we all played CS (counter strike)

Tuesday, December 23

The Jordan Creek

My first time in Jordan Creek was a bad experience. We watched horror movie called "Quarantine". It was really bad. The camera of the movie was the first person point of view, meaning it moves exactly how the person moves. It made me headache, other friends complained too. Also, I am those kind of people who have strong and deep memory (not photographic memory), so when ever I watch a movie, most of the time I will remember it, especially tiny details/scenes that trigger curiosity. This memory will last for a few weeks, so basically I lived in fear for a few weeks after that movie.

I did not want to watch the movie at first, but all others want to watch. So basically, I paid 9 bucks to scare myself, sigh...

Never mind that. After watching the movie, we have taken a few pictures outside of Jordan Creek Mall. I really do not know why the screen reflection blocked my face, as it is in the picture shown below. Why out of so many people, only I am affected?

After seeing that picture, we have decided to take again to see how it goes. Fortunately, it went well. =)



Monday, November 17

Giang & Chiann Birthday

Giang (pronounced as Zeng) from Vietnam, Pre-celebration

Chiann from Malaysia, Post-celebration







Sunday, November 16

Drake Basketball Team VS Minnesota

First thing that shocked me was, there are so many people (6021 people) in the Knapp Center for only a basketball tournament between A UNIVERSITY and the other. But the opponent of Drake is from Minnesota (another state). There are Cheer leaders, opening ceremony etc. It is really a huge event for Drake University.

Drake even encourage its students to support its team by giving out free shirts for first 500 students. In the event itself, it gives another don't know how many free gifts and shirts. Also, only Drake students can receive tickets for free, each student is eligible for only 1 ticket. And usually sometimes they ought to sell the tickets last minute at the gate for those who did not manage to get the limited free ticket from Drake; they sell it for like around 20 - 30 bucks @@.

I started queueing at 5.15, the match starts at 7 sharp (well, U.S. always punctual, when they say 7 means 7). The queue was so long. All queueing outside the Knapp Center and the door only opens at 6 pm sharp. Drake students really like this kind of event much. If other students that came like around 7 pm, there will be no more nice seats.

During the game, everyone was like so excited and intense. Basically they only cheer for their Drake team (because all of them are audience from Iowa). They "buu" opponent team throughout the whole match. I think this is unfair because this action will give tremendous stress to the foreign team, I guess they are used to it because of their culture. Despite competing in this pressuring situation, Minnesota team won by 10 points for this tournament.



Drake is losing by a few points in the first half. Also note that there are 3 referees for a match.





When Drake team was doing free throw, the audience will do some hand sign to calm the crowd down, asking them not to make any noise so that the player concentrate in his throw. When his throw entered the basket, the crowd will give an applause. If he did not enter, nothing happened.

When opponent team was doing it, the audience will remain quiet as well, until when he was going to shoot, they suddenly made some noise to distract his concentration. When he did not get it entered the basket, the crowd will give an applause. If it did entered, "buu" from the audience.

Those cheer leaders are well trained.

This Drake VS other state tournament is so huge. Others (like me) might think that it state or national tournament.

Drake basketball team was quite good and always win tournaments. But somehow it lost this match. It might be due to my presence as this is my first time watching it? Debatable...

Saturday, November 15

Stress Week - 11/7 till 11/13

I post this after experienced some stress days. As a student, it is normal to face a number of stressful events in a week.

Management Midterm 2 (Monday) - It is quite a heavy event for me. I tried to finished every page that is required and I made it! More than 100 pages of words. This subject primarily focus on working behavior, so it is related to psychology of working life. I can hardly do well in pure reading subjects.

Information System 101 Case Studies (Tuesday, due 2 pm) - I was like rushing for 1 of the 3 case studies on Monday night and managed to finished it. As for the other 2, it is settled by other group mates. This is how it works, my professor randomly picked a few people (using a computer, so it won't be bias) and have the groups to work on a Wikis which setup by the professor through BlackBoard (a website for each of the students to summit their assignment online, download important documents posted by professors, do exam online (some of the subjects), view results etc)). So in this Wiki, basically each other can edit each others work and professors rate it according to each individual effort. I did a case study, others did other case studies. BUT this does not mean that each case studies has acquired all of the students participation; all of us (around 5 or 6) will have to do all 3 cases (by editing others work, usually grammar). I forced myself to wake up earlier on Tuesday to edit others work and continue research on the company of Wellsfargo.

Mock Interview (Tuesday, 3.30 pm) - (I am writing this on Monday) I did not take it seriously. Because this is an interview organized by Drake University to let us expose to interviews. It is a very beneficial program and all students from business school will definitely need to go through it. Also, the interviewers are from the companies itself, not simply substitute by Drake staff. By knowing this at the last minute, I felt a little stress because I know I can't simply go through it; this is my first and my best opportunity to practice my interviewing skills. BUT, I have to prioritize Finance midterm on Wednesday. Also, there are 3 cases studies for Information System subject due on Tuesday (2:00 p.m.); I have completed none of those. So, I do not have any time to spare to practice it. I assumed I can be very natural also.

The day of the interview, I screwed up. Haha... Wellsfargo staff was my interviewer, and there are two of them. There was no eye contact at all. It is not because I do not want to look into their eyes; it is that they do not want to look into mine because they busy writing down my responses, BOTH of them writing the same thing. The interview process took about 30 minutes (it was really long) and the questions are unexpectedly difficult or different. I have surveyed those basics questions and prepared only for that because I really do not have the time. After the interview, I felt a bit overwhelmed, I wonder why. But I think that it is because I felt happy going through such a hard interview (my perception) and learned something from it. Which is always a good thing.

Finance Midterm 3 (Wednesday) - I was quite relax knowing that I have to face it. It is because I do not want to stress myself after getting Management midterm, IS case studies, mock interview done. But I did try my best to study last minute. This is the exam I care the most out of all things simply because I am a finance major. After finishing the exam, I felt very stress; I know I did not do well, I had got one of the subjective question wrong, STUPID mistake. I felt miserable after that, the whole day. All I can do now is to hope that he will grade me according to the steps, not the ultimate answer. In general, everyone says the test was a disaster.

After the midterm, I went home to take a short nap. Go to work on 5 pm to 7 pm. I was SOO tired. I am happy the fact that my China friend treat me a meal at 7 at Drake's Buffet (Hubbell).

Assignment 6 of Information System 44 (Thursday, due 9 pm) - It is about microsoft access. It took me about 1 hour plus to finish it, not a problem at all. I finished it on Thursday around 3 something. Good thing about this assignment is that, if we know how to do it, we could skip the class on Thursday. Well, there is always text book for guidance, everything is inside. So I skipped the class, I slept till 2 pm on Thursday.

Quiz of Information System 44 (Thursday, due 9 pm) - Super easy, no comment.

Monday, November 10

The vietnamese dance was very traditional. I kinda enjoy the music but could not even understand a single word.


I would say this is the best performance of all. Both of them dance well, look out for their steps.



This Indian dance was quite traditional as well. Notice that there is a non-indian and she danced as well as the other one.


No commet on this. Haha...


This song is very nice. I do not understand a single word but the music and the way they sang it was quite good. Notice at the end of the song, they sang "I am from Austria", somehow everyone laughed at this point. =)


Fusion! Combination of a few different kinds of dances, where they include professors! The person on the left (our left now) is my finance professor. I never imagined that he will dance this well; I thought he was a serious person.

Dances from all different countries.

Saturday, November 8

First Snow in My Life: 11/8/2008

This is my first time seeing real snow. Nothing special about this post, just feel like posting it. The weather here is getting colder as day goes by. Sigh... to reinforce, I really dislike cold weather.

Thursday, October 16

BAD NEWS - SNOW IS COMING!

I have heard from a few friends saying that snow is COMING soon, by the end of October...
I am very afraid of COLD!! Back in Malaysia I hated Sun so much. I really hope winter never comes.
Fall has just arrived, not even more than 1 month.
I do not really like the weather here in Des Moines, it is CRAZY! Sometimes at night, it will be around 7 celcius, sometimes 21 celcius. It is so random. But I really like it when is it hot in here, their hot is warm for me, just nice. As for it's cold... I was wearing 3 layers and yet there are people jogging with singlet around the street. I think their skin has built-in another layer that really keeps them warm.

Direct Marketing Ethics - My Opinion

If you feel like reading and have got nothing to do, here is opinion essay that I have written as one of my Marketing 101 assignments. =)

Marketing Ethics in Direct Selling Companies

Throughout the assignment, I will be discussing direct selling ethics. Before starting my points, I would like to explain what direct selling is and how it works. Direct selling is the marketing of products or services to consumers through sales tactics including presentations, demonstrations, and making cold calling phone calls. Most direct selling companies do not require “middle men” such as retail stores and brokers to sell their products. Their employees use word-of-mouth techniques to market their products and expand their network. As their network grows larger, they earn more profit without doing much because they rely on their networks to market the products. We know that people in our network will have another network of their own and so on, this is what we call the power of networking, which is utilized by most direct selling companies. Therefore, they do not spend on advertising like television, newspaper, and magazines etc; they prefer to use that amount of money on their employees. That is why the norm said that people who are hard worker will be likely to succeed in direct selling business.

In the past two years, I joined a few direct selling companies, and I have analyzed the methods they have used through observations and surveys and I would really like to express my thoughts and opinions on this issue. It sounds nice when the direct selling companies are able to expand their network and earn money from doing so. However, we have to know that getting someone to join your marketing network is not easy, especially when there is a requirement to purchase a minimum amount of products (it does not matter whether they are necessity products or luxury products) to maintain your membership every month. In addition to that, there are differences between ethics and law. No one will be enforceable in court as long as their actions do not violate society’s values and standard; however, it does not mean that they do not violate moral principles and values. Hence most direct selling companies fall into the category of unethical but legal business. (Note that I stated “most” not “all” direct selling companies because I might not know if there is an ethical direct selling company. Also I am reflecting direct selling companies ethics in my home country in Malaysia, not United States, so I do not know whether they operate the same methods).

The first unethical behavior of direct selling companies is that they often take advantage of young adults or students. They tend to focus on young adults around the age of eighteen to twenty-four due to their immature mindsets. After graduating from high school, most of them tend to experience working while studying in college or pre-university. Somehow, through network of friends, some of them will get in touch with direct selling. At their age, if they join the company, they tend to work hard and follow the steps they have been exposed to. I believe that this is the case because they have got nothing to lose; all they gain is experience (or money if they are hardworking, sometimes it is really hard for starters to sell any products). If the recruiter’s company’s business plan is well-planned, most of the students are very likely to be persuaded, especially when recruiters structure their sentences and plans in a very convincing way. However, most of the recruiters are deceitful. They usually have a set of calculations whereby if their down-lines (or the people who are recruited) sell any product, as up-lines do (recruiters), they will get rewards points which will be converted into cash. In other words, some of them are ‘using’ the young adults to help them market their products yet they themselves are not doing anything productive.

To further elaborate on the previous point, recruiters’ companies have already developed a ‘beneficial’ program for the people who sign up. Upon signing up, students will receive packages as new members, including a guidebook to assist them on how to start the business. In exchange for that, they are required to pay an annual fee or membership fee which is costly. On the other hand, the recruiters will get incentives (or cash) for successfully hiring someone. In addition, recruiters often persuade students by challenging them. For example, they will say something like “We only recruit hard-working people.” I presume this action is unethical because they are saying that students are not hard-working if they do not join. Well, a mature adult would not even care what the recruiters say; recruiters are mainly taking advantage of the naive minds of students.

The second unethical behavior of direct selling companies is that recruiters often misuse the network of friends. I am going to describe how they take it for granted. Firstly, they will ask their down-lines to make a list of contacts of the network of friends that they have. After that, they will ask them to make short calls to invite them out for a cup of tea while explaining a little about the business over the phone. So far it sounds nothing wrong. However, let us consider this. How likely will your friends reject you directly if you ask them out and discuss a business? I would say most of them will not directly reject you, they will do it indirectly instead. For instance, they might say that they are not free on that day or they are always busy. Somehow, most of the down-lines do not get the message that their friends had rejected them, thus they keep on pursuing another call on some other days; they will keep on calling until their friends tell them directly - “No, I am not interested.” If I am your friend and you kept making calls to my private cell phone telling me about your business, most probably I will try to avoid answering your calls and put you into my blocked list. Basically, the up-lines just simply neglect the fact of this issue; they only focus on whether “Did my down-lines manage to recruit someone yet?”

To further enhance the previous point, I’m going to use my personal experience as an example. Back then, I was too naïve, playing with the phone by simply calling anyone in my list. After few months of trying, I have never gotten anyone to come out and discuss the business with me. To explain this story, I would use another real life example. A friend of mine kept on telling me that she was so annoyed by a friend of hers who texted her nearly every night. The reason was to ask her when she had time to come out for a business talk. She did not want to reject it directly and she just kept on complaining to me about it. He did not only texted her, sometimes he even called her every night. At the end of the second month, my friend could not stand it and she blurted out that she was not interested. It simply meant the friend of hers did not attempt to give up despite two months of persuasion. Personally, I have worked in the same direct selling company. I have used the same method to call my friends, so I know how embarrassed I was when I started to call my friends.

If I were to be in charge of a direct selling company, I would definitely stress on my recruiter’s methods of recruiting and expanding their network. I would prohibit any program that misuses or manipulates the minds of young adults (or students). Any recruiter who violates the rule of my company will be fired. I believe that if there is no action taken on these issues, the image of my direct selling company will most likely be destroyed in the long-run. Hence, together with my business partners, we will discuss on the recruiting plans. I will not allow my company to use any methods which most direct selling companies are using to invade the privacy of my potential sellers from any age range.

I understand that every business’s main objective is to maximize profit (except non-profit business). However, their way of doing business might be ethical only for their own company. Thus, this results in conflicted interests between company and society. Business ethics can be examined from various perspectives. In this case, it will be from company’s perspective and society’s perspective. Whatever recruiters do seem to be ethical for their company but it does not seem to be ethical for society. Hence, I will propose a plan where it benefits both company and society. Instead of aggressively approaching potential sellers and customers, companies should have let the potential sellers and customers approach them. For instance, they could set up a talk or demonstration about their products and business plan in a regional area. They could set up mini advertisements like posters or flyers (which does not cost much) somewhere noticeable a week or two in advance to notify the people around that area. People who are interested may call in so that companies could provide transportation on that day of the talk. On the day of the talk, they can start recruiting those who are interested without ‘forcing’ them. I strongly believe that by doing so, society’s image of direct selling companies will turn positive in the long-run.

In conclusion, I think the direct-selling companies’ methods of recruiting are unethical in Malaysia. They are unethical because the employees take advantage of young adults through various ways to get them involved. The solution that I have proposed above is the best solution for direct-selling companies to recruit people through talks or presentations. This way, they allow society or community to decide on whether they want to join without coercion. However, this method might not recruit more people than the aggressive method and it might require recruiters to relocate. Last but not least, it is ethical to both the company and the society.

Wednesday, October 15

My Host Family


Stephanie, Maggie, Mike and Justin are my host family's Children. Shilpa, Mary Anne, Ying Huang, Ian, Cheng Khang and me are adopted. So we have a pretty big family here. =)

Sunday, October 12

MASA Potluck

Basically, all (most) of us cooked our part (not that part of our body) and gathered together and eat Malaysian foods while enjoying to be together. I cooked porridge and it didnt know serve well. I spent exactly an hour in preparing porridge, cut the chicken and fish into slices and mixed all of them together. My food had a lot of leftover after the potluck. Well, I do not mind because I can treat it as my breakfast next morning. We also had fun in singing Karaoke, although there is only 1 microphone. It has been awhile since the last time I been to Redbox in Pyramid, I just enjoy that moment very much.




Saturday, October 11

Sugar Gliders!

They are really cute creatures, much cuter and adorable than hamsters. These sugar gliders are owned by my host family. Below are the video clips of my host mum and sugar glider (I forgot its name, because there are more than 10 of it and each of them has a name).

One thing that I have forgot to mention is that they can JUMP! They can glide 150 meters in the air. Also, their tails are longer than their bodies. If you like to know more about it, check http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sugar_glider. =)

ID Card & Business Card



Nothing special but... Just feel like uploading it. =)

Friday, September 26

My Laptop and Handphone

W580i, Sony Ericsson. At&t
Free after main-in rebate

Black: Justin

Red: Mary Anne



Laptop: HP Pavilion dv6700

$700 after rebate

No built-in graphic card because of some discouragements. =(


But, overall, I really like my laptop =)








Laptop: Sony Vaio
$700 after rebate

Owner: Mary Anne



The front cover is really unique.

The overall specs is the same as my laptop.


Check out the download speed!


This is the download speed that I am experiencing here in US. Within hours I can download few movies! Very unlike back then in Malaysia which I used about few weeks for a movie to finish downloading. STREAMYX, YOU SUCK, I NO longer NEED you.

Optical Illusion






There are 2 boxes: A and B


The unique thing about this picture is that, the color of box A and box B is the SAME. It can only be seen if you cut out all the boxes, which i did. The pictures are below:



This image presented in my Management class, the moral story is do not judge what you see at first sight.

Monday, September 15

Pot Luck by Host Families

Well, this is the first time I have got a host family other than my own parents. My host family parents are Bob Swatson, Denise Swatson while their children are Justin, Maggie, Michael, Stephanie and 2 others whom I cant remember their names because they were absent for the pot luck. There are 4 other international students joined me in this family too: Windy (China), Cheng Khang (Malaysia), Mary Anne (Malaysia), and Ian (Malaysia). Our host family is the largest among all other familes in the hall, we have 11 siblings in total. My family is extremely friendly in the way they talk and how they have been treating us. There is a traditional dancing performance by Amy Soon too, it was great. I actually seen them practicing and this is their result:

After the program for the day has ended, Denise gave us winter coats, boots and blankets, for free. So I got my first winter coat in life. =)

Mooncake Pot Luck

Hosted by Kenneth Lai and house mates, assisted by cheng khang, hou lai, mary anne, me and some others. By the wording of the title everyone knows that we did celebrate moon cake festival here in US. It was an extremely fun day. Most of us cooked and everyone gathered at around 10 pm (it was so late because of me and mary anne) and the most delicious food served. Me, Mary Anne and Peik Hong were late because we just came back from a conference in Kansas City then we rushed to cook our part of food. Cooking potatoes and mash potatoes were really time consuming, really apology for 11 others who waited for us for more than 30 mins. The dinner consisted of muchroom chickens, Kebab, vege, red beans soup, potatoes (i cook one), mash potatoes (mary anne), fried rice, tons of steam rice, ice cream and water melon (cut by Jun-Yi). It was a wonderful dinner, we enjoyed all the food and we were actually playing Mafia all night long. It was really a cool night and I hope this kind of event will continue going on. It was a tiring day too because I got up at 4.45 am and we got back here in Des Moines around 7.45 pm. check out on the video clip below.

Merdeka Countdown at USA

The title sounds a bit cool right? Different time zone yet the Malaysians at Drake can follow some kinda merdeka countdown system. There are more than 100 Malaysians at my University, so the celebration was like kinda fun plus there are always food and drinks provided. There was an election for "Junior Rep" among the new Malaysians at Drake (including me), but I lost the election. I was not sad at all. Hope you enjoy the video clip below.

Sunday, September 7

BAT in my house!!

There is something unusual that has been going on in my house at night> The BATman Begins. It terrified me, and everyone else like Cheng Khang, Kenneth, Tuan Khoon, Brandon, Peik Hong, BUT not Mary Anne. It has been flying around my house almost every night when i first arrived here in Iowa. There must be a loop hole somewhere in my house (which i found it few days ago). It was actually the window's problem, it was not properly shut. Kenneth did experiment on the BAT by using Onions. It seemed that the bat does not give a "dam" on Kenneth's onions. Check it out in the video below.

Few nights later, there was another bat in my house. It was really scary, I cant describe well here, check it out in the video below.

Fortunately, the problem has been solved. Phew...


ISA Welcome Back Party

ISA (International Student Association) of Drake hosted a Welcome Back Party for seniors last Friday night. But the objective of the party was open for mainly international students like me. There are quite amount of people there, it was a fun night, and also a night where i can see mostly all of the Malaysians in Drake. Actually i wanted to go for the free food only, but the food turned out to be pizza and cookies, sad to say. However, as i said, it was quite fun. The first activity was musical chair, and i lost, for all 2 rounds. Next activity was couple dancing competition! It is the nicest part of the party. Mary Anne and Jun Yi danced well and they made half way to the final. Their dance was nice but a bit of funny though, watch the video below and you will know what I meant.


Then, Jun Yi got exhausted. Someone (an American) out of nowhere suddenly interrupted the competition and wanted to join, so he replaced Jun Yi. and they managed to make it to finals, together with another couple from Malaysia. Both of their steps were good, i can say. Check out on the video below.

The winning team goes to Mary Anne and Unknown. As you can see they are both quite good, but the majority cheers went to Mary Anne. All 4 of them got 4 cups (cups for drinking water not something else) for the well performance.

Something that I have been hiding all the while, this is my blog but i have not mention any about me, i am a noob dancer. This party is just like clubbing, the only difference is that there is not alcoholic drinks because we are not allowed to drink due to under age. So we all just dance according to the music. I can get the rhythm of the music perfectly, but my body does not seemed to be cooperating. Or else, the partner for Mary Anne will be me and we will be the one who won the competition. How sad is it huh...